Who is the BIGGEST liar?

In my experience MEN are the biggest liars. I have been lied to over and over. Is it hard for men to be honest and real?!? Where do they hope to get by lying and hiding things?!? I know women can lie and hide things too and I am not saying I haven't lied or hid things. 

However, I eventually have come clean cause I figured if I don't like being lied to then WHY LIE?!? It doesn't get me ANYWHERE! The men I've known to lie have NEVER come clean and I am sure they NEVER will. ONE in particular but I am not getting into that. This is a general blog not a male bashing blog, maybe I will do that later lol.

Other people think a "WHITE LIE" is OK. I beg to differ! A LIE is a LIE no matter what! A "LITTLE LIE"  is NOT ok either. So suddenly "SUGAR COATING" is OK. I DON'T THINK SO! I remember when I was a kid, my mom would say, "Think about God and you won't feel a thing", every time I went for a shot or had an IV in my arm.

Surprisingly that did work sometimes BUT, I still felt like she was lying to me, because it didn't work all the time lol. She also "sugar coated" the truth when she said that she was having surgery for a hole in the esophagus. The awful truth was she was dying of cancer and didn't want me to know. I was the last to know, my 2 brothers already knew.

I can forgive liars but not when they are constantly lying. My first husband (I've been married twice for those who don't know) told me once that, he was going to see a friend of his whom I went to see with him before. I didn't think anything of it cause she was supposedly a good "Christian" woman and wouldn't touch a married man.

Well, he left around 7pm to visit her and I didn't go with him cause I didn't feel like going out that night. So, it got later and I decided to call her apartment and she answered. I asked where he was and then she gave him the phone. It was around 11pm. I asked him what they were up to and he said they were talking about God and the Bible.

Who was he kidding?!? I DIDN'T BELIEVE THAT AT ALL! So I told him to get home and he didn't get home till 2am. I was really mad and he STILL said they were only talking about that. WHY WOULD AN ATHIEST CARE ABOUT GOD?!? Till this day he still says nothing happened between them but I don't believe that and I don't care anyway cause we are divorced. I WASN'T BORN YESTERDAY!

Children learn to lie so young these days. My nephew was 4 years old I believe when he told his first lie. I remember I was given a piece of paper and it had bad words on it. He already knew how to write and I knew it was his handwriting but I didn't wanna believe it.

So, I asked him if he wrote the words and he was scared to say anything. I told him he didn't have to be scared but he cried anyway. I have NEVER yelled at my nephew and I NEVER will. So, he said his cousin wrote them and we left it at that. Later on he came to me and told me that his cousin TOLD him to write the words and I believed him.

His cousin was a few years older and a brat. Anyway, so the reason I say men are the BIGGEST LIARS is because that is what they are good at the most. They wouldn't know what truth is if it bit them in the ass. They are liars and on top of that they are BAD liars. Women can lie BETTER lol. I must say that I lie when I have to but it's rare for me.

I don't like to lie really. When I am asked anything personal, I tell it like it is and that's that. I don't hide anything about myself. What is the biggest lie you were ever told? How did you handle it? I have been told many lies and I still haven't healed from them. I guess you never get over it because you expect the people you love to be honest with you. It is always shocking when someone lies to you in such ways.

Promises to me are lies. People have promised me so much and never delivered. Why bother to promise something you can't deliver?!? IT REALLY IRRITATES ME! Did you ever make a promise you couldn't keep? Did someone make you a promise they didn't keep? How did you feel? I'd love to know your experiences with liars. This is all I gotta say!

Rainbow Brite

A little orphan girl named Wisp is taken by an unknown force to the Colorless World. She must find the Sphere of Light, but upon doing so, she befriends a sprite, Twink, and a majestic white horse known as Starlite. She rescues the seven Color Kids (one for each color of the rainbow) and finds the Color Belt, which is the tool she needs to bring color to the land. After using it to defeat the King of Shadows (also known as the Evil Force and the Dark One), an evil hooded being with twitchy fingers, the unknown force renames Wisp as Rainbow Brite. She and the Color Kids (and their helpers, the Sprites) live in Rainbow Land and are in charge of all the colors on Earth.

Tom And Jerry

Tom and Jerry is a series of animated theatrical shorts created by William Hanna and Joseph Barbera for Metro-Goldwyn-Mayer that centered on a never-ending rivalry between a housecat (Tom) and a mouse (Jerry) whose chases and battles often involved comic violence.

Foghorn Leghorn

Foghorn Leghorn is a large, anthropomorphized adult rooster with a strong Virginia or Kentucky accent and a penchant for mischief.

Jem And The Holograms

The show is about music company owner Jerrica Benton, her singer alter-ego Jem, her band the Holograms, and their adventures.

She-Ra

She-Ra is introduced in the animated movie The Secret of the Sword as Force Captain Adora, an agent of the Evil Horde that rules the planet Etheria. She discovers that she is the long-lost twin sister of Prince Adam of Eternia, having been stolen by the Horde's leader, Hordak, as a baby. She is granted the Sword of Protection, which parallels He-Man's Sword of Power, gaining the power to transform into She-Ra, her secret identity.

He-Man

He-Man is a heroic fictional character in the Masters of the Universe franchise. He is the alter ego of Prince Adam and also the twin brother of She-Ra. He-Man and his friends defend Eternia and the secrets of Castle Grayskull from the evil forces of Skeletor.

Care Bears

The Care Bears appeared in their own television series from 1985 to 1988, in addition to three feature films: The Care Bears Movie (1985), Care Bears Movie II: A New Generation (1986), and The Care Bears Adventure in Wonderland (1987).

Maya The Bee (German-Spanish)

The Adventures of Maya the Bee (German: Die Biene Maja) is a German book, comic book series and animated television series, first written by Waldemar Bonsels and published in 1912. The series has been published also in many other languages besides German. The stories revolve around a little bee named Maya and her friends Willy the bee, Flip the grasshopper, Mrs. Cassandra (Maya's teacher), and many other insects. The book depicts Maya's development from an adventurous youngster to a responsible adult member of bee society.

Porky Pig

Porky's most distinctive trait is a severe stutter, for which he sometimes compensates by replacing his words; for example, "What's going on?" might become "What's guh-guh-guh-guh—...what's happening?". In the ending of many Looney Tunes cartoons, Porky Pig bursts through a bass drum skin, and his farewell line "That's all follks!" becomes "Th- Th-Th-Th-Th-... That's all, folks." Porky Pig would appear in 152 cartoons in the Golden Age of American animation.

Daffy Duck

Daffy is known as the best friend and occasionally self-imagined rival of Bugs Bunny.

Speedy Gonzales

Speedy Gonzales (or Gonzalez), "The Fastest Mouse in all Mexico", is an animated cartoon mouse from the Warner Brothers Looney Tunes and Merrie Melodies series of cartoons. Speedy's major traits are his ability to run extremely fast and his comedic Mexican accent. He usually wears an oversized yellow sombrero, a white shirt and trousers, and a red kerchief.

Tweety And Sylvester

Tweety (also known as Tweety Bird and Tweety Pie) is a fictional Yellow Canary in the Warner Bros. Looney Tunes and Merrie Melodies series of animated cartoons. Sylvester J. Pussycat, Sr., or simply, Sylvester the Cat, or Sylvester, or Puddy Tat (as in I tawt I taw a puddy tat, a sentence often repeated by his arch-nemesis Tweety Bird) or gringo pussy-gato (a sobriquet attached by another antagonist, Speedy Gonzales), is a fictional character, a three-time Academy Award-winning anthropomorphic Tuxedo cat in the Looney Tunes and Merrie Melodies repertory, often chasing Tweety Bird, Speedy Gonzales, or Hippety Hopper. The name "Sylvester" is a play on felis silvestris, the scientific name for the wild cat species (domestic cats like Sylvester, though, are actually felis catus).

Candy Candy (Japanese - Spanish)

Candy Candy (キャンディ・キャンディ^?) is a Japanese novel, manga, and anime series. The main character, Candice "Candy" White Ardlay is a blonde American girl with freckles, large emerald green eyes and long, curly hair, worn in pigtails with bows. Candy Candy first appeared in a prose novel by famed Japanese writer Kyoko Mizuki in April 1975. When Mizuki joined forces with manga artist Yumiko Igarashi, the Japanese magazine Nakayoshi became interested in Candy Candy. The series was serialized as a manga series in the magazine for four years and won the 1st Kodansha Manga Award for shōjo in 1977. The story was adapted into an anime series by Toei animation. There are also several Candy Candy movies which were never released outside of Japan.

Hutch The Bee - Jose La Abeja (Japanese-Spanish)

The story of a bee raised by another family goes out to find his mother. This story made me cry when I was 8 years old. It's a good and sad story. It's one of my very favorites!

Would you like to speak another language? If so what one and why? 
 no1charmerlondon

Well I already speak 2 which are Spanish and English, Spanish being my first language. Since I was about 9 years old, I took an interest in learning Italian. I don't speak it much but I understand it enough. I'd love to speak it fluently because I think it's a beautiful language and other than speaking it, I have enjoyed singing in Italian and through songs I have learned it quite a bit. I wanna continue to learn it since I am with someone who is Italian as you know lol.

If you could be a famous person for a day who would you be and why?
no1charmerlondon

Angelina Jolie lol. Because she has done what I have always wanted to do, and that is adopt kids and give to charity to help kids, and she has Brad Pitt for a husband. So who wouldn't wanna be her?!? lol

How many people have you been in love with?
no1charmerlondon

You love putting me on the spot Chris lol. Well, I have been in love 3 times in my life but I am not mentioning any names lol. You know me so I think you know who those 3 are lol.

Who is your biggest inspiration?
shopgirl_london

I'd have to say that my mother is my biggest inspiration. Lately I have written things that have to do with her. Since her death in 1999 I have written many things about her. I don't think I will ever stop writing about her. Her birthday and death anniversary are both coming up in November, so you are gonna be seeing a lot of blogs about her more than likely.

If you could have me drive you around in any car what car would it be?
italianenginedoctor

Well my love, when I was younger I was in love with red porsches lol. I still like them now, so I'd say that's the car I'd want you to drive me in.

Whats your favourite movie and why?
Irish_American_Lad

I have a lot of favorites. I'd have to say Titanic because I loved the part where Rose took Jack's name. I think if I was that in love (which I am) and something happened to Steve (God forbid) and we weren't married yet, I'd want to take his name and make it mine. It would honor him and our love. I also like the movie because of the actors in it, a lot of them are my favorites.

Can you make Puerto Rican rice if so please give me your recipe?
YouTOme

I can make Puerto Rican rice but I don't have patience to cook at all lol. Here is a link where you can find all the Puerto Rican dishes you wanna try www.elboricua.com/recipes. If that doesn't work when you click on it, just copy paste to your browser and it will work.

When is your bday?
YouTOme

I was born November 15, 1976. I was born on a Monday at 7:14PM. I was born exactly 9 months and a day after my parents got married lol.

Any special holiday or family traditions?
YouTOme

The family tradition died with my mother sadly. Christmas was the best when she was around. We would get together in the morning to open up presents as a family then later we would have a meal together as a family as well. As a Latin American family, we always had a party with friends and family and lots of laughs. Needless to say Christmas nor any other holiday is the same anymore, so we don't bother. I tried to keep it going like my mom always did but I am not her so it's not the same.

What would you like your name to be if you couldn't be called Sandra?
 Football_Freak_Chick

Well sweetie, I do love my name lol. If I had to pick a name for myself, it would be Brenda.

How many times have you been proposed to? where and how?
ktanderton

My gosh Kevin lol! Well, that's hard to answer lol. In person, I got proposed twice. The first time was at my mom's house after I got home from the airport. We sat next to each other and he took the ring box out of his pocket and just asked me. The second time, we were at a store and he had me look at rings and told me to pick one so I did. After he paid for it, he took it out and asked me to marry him. Online, I have been asked 6 times lol. Three of those were idiots from Africa who wouldn't leave me alone, one was my Irish ex fiancee and he just asked one night out of the blue and the other two you know. The 2 people you know, well one asked me on the phone and sent the ring to me. The other asked me last year and we are still engaged now and he surprised me when he asked lol.

What is your favorite flower?
 YouTOme

I love all kinds of flowers, but I'd have to go with roses. I love the smell of roses and I love them in any color, but of course my favorite one is the red rose lol.

What is your favorite color?
YouTOme

My favorite color is red. I love all shades of red. If it were up to me, everything around me would be red lol.

Do you and Steve have a favorite song or more?
YouTOme

Yes, our song is Wonderwall by Oasis. I asked him one night what song he thought suited us and that is what he said. After carefully listening to the words, I realized that really is our song cause it tells our story.

What names do you like?
YouTOme

I like a lot of names lol. For a girl I'd say, Christina, Annabelle, Rosairis, Rosalia, Mariana. For a boy I'd say, Sebastian, Stephano, Michael, Christopher, Anthony, Brandon, Kevin, Marco. I can't think of any others lol.

What are some of your favor nicknames?
YouTOme

Bella - my man and our daughters call me that. Sanny - Chris made that up and I liked it. San - friends call me that. Sandri - my grandma calls me that, my dad and stepmom as well. Sandrita - my cousins call me that. Bunny - Chris and Ash call me that. Babe - my man calls me that, Baby - Chris called me that when we were together. One of my daughters calls me Big Bella cause I call her Little Bella since her name is Isabella. I think that's cute! My other kids call me "mummy" but that's cause I am their "mom" lol. Peachy - my buddy Tommy calls me that and I like it too!

What do you want me to call you?
YouTOme

A lot of people call me San, so you can call me that if you want. Sandra is fine too but if you call me San a lot and then suddenly you call me Sandra I will think you are mad at me lol.

What's a phobia you have if you have any?
YouTOme

I fear being alone the most, but other than that, I fear spiders and bugs - yuck lol. I fear deep dark waters and drowning which I came close to a few times. 

When did you begin writing poetry?
ichigo705

I began when I was about 16 years old. It started out about being boy crazy lol, then my friend died in a car accident and I used writing as a way to cope with her death. After I got over that, I kept writing about different things and showed people what I was writing and they liked it so I kept going and here I am still doing it 17 years later.  

Do you have any favorite poets?
 ichigo705

Yes I do! They are Sylvia Plath, Edgar Allan Poe and William Shakespeare. I like others but only those 3 came to mind lol and are really my favorite poets of all time.

What is your favourite animal?
Deana_Bambina

Well sweetie, I love a lot of animals. If I had to pick one, I'd say the wolf. They are mysterious and unpredictable. They are gorgeous! 

What are your favourite alcoholic and non-alcoholic drinks?
 kinky_kattie_katie

Alcoholic - well I'd drink anything lol. If I had to pick a favorite I'd say Alabama Slammers. I sure drank enough of those in my day lol. Non-alcoholic - well lately my favorite is peach iced tea but before that I was drinking Pepsi a lot lol.

In your opinion whats the best thing about your personality?
kinky_kattie_katie

I can make people laugh and smile even when they don't feel like it, so I've been told by a few people lol. I think that is all I can say on that lol.

Whats your favourite outfit to wear?
 Irish_American_Lad

At the moment I'd say my red dress cause it looks nice on me, (yes I know I am obsessed with red lol).

The morning comes and Susie is up for the day. She can't decide what to do and finds herself pacing back and forth. She looks at the time and thinks to herself, "Roger must be on his way to the airport.". She let's out a big sigh and heads to the shower. Meanwhile Roger is driving himself to the airport and thinking of Susie. He wipes away his tears as he is driving on. Susie is in the shower thinking about Justin. "Maybe I should give him a call and see what he is up to!", Susie thinks to herself aloud. She gets out of the shower and wraps herself in a towel. She dials him up but there is no answer. Susie hangs up without leaving him a message.

She gets dressed and decides to go to the hospital where she works part time. On the way to the hospital, she stops by a flower shop. "These yellow roses will surely brighten up the day for Mrs. E.B. and make her smile", she says to herself smiling as she walks up to pay for them. She arrives at the hospital and takes the elevator. She arrived at the Unit where Mrs. E.B. had been for so long due to her health problems. She walks into Mrs. E.B.'s only to find an empty bed. She goes up to the Nurse's Station and asks where Mrs. E.B. is. "I'm sorry Susie but, Mrs. Brown passed away in her sleep last night." Susie drops the roses on the floor and falls to her knees crying hard. "Why didn't anyone call me last night?!? She was my patient!", Susie cried.

"Susie, I'm sorry but, you know that in this field, you can't get attached to people.", Nurse Kelly Wyatt said. "I'm well aware of that but she wasn't just a patient to me, she was so much more than that!", Susie said crying harder. Susie went back to the room where Mrs. E.B. had been and she saw the family photo album that she had shown her before. Susie grabbed it and held it tight. She opens it up to look at the photos again. A small envelope falls out. Susie picks it up. She reads the envelope addressed to her. Susie opens it and inside is a "Thank you" note. Susie sits on the bed and reads the note. The note read...

"Dear Susie,

If you are reading this, it means I have gone home to our Heavenly Father. I just wanted you to know that I appreciated everything you did for me. Your beautiful and cheerful smile always made my day. Sadly life must come to an end and it was my time to go. I want to thank you for taking the time to listen to this old woman. You're a fine young woman, keep up your studies. I know you will be one fine cardiologist someday. Blessings to you dear.

Love,
Evelyn Brown

Susie lies down on the bed crying. "Are you alright?", asked Nurse Kelly. Susie sat up and wiped her tears away. "Yes, I am fine.", Susie said as she got up and walked out the door. "Susie wait, what are you gonna do about these flowers?", Kelly asked. Susie kept walking without answering her. On her way home, Susie was remembering how Mrs. E.B. had no relatives left. So when she got home she called the hospital to explain the situation and to let them know she would take care of the cremation.  Normally the hospital wouldn't allow this but they all knew how close they had grown so she was allowed to do it. Susie was happy to be able to do that much for Evelyn even though she had wished she had been there to save her life.

The phone rings. It's the County Jail calling. Susie freaks out. She answers the phone, "Hello.". A voice on the other end says, "Hello, is this Miss Curry?. "Yes, this is she.", she replied. "My name is Officer Carl James, the reason for this call is to inform you that your mother has fallen ill and has been taken to the local hospital." Susie hangs up the phone before he gives her more information. She rushes out the door. "Oh my God, please don't let it be serious. I can't lose her too!", she screams as she drives in tears. She arrives and goes to the Emergency Department. "Hi Larry, I got a phone call from the County Jail telling me that my mother is here.", she tells the front desk person.

"Hi Susie, what is your mother's name?", he asked. "Her name is Belinda Curry.", Susie replied. Larry looked her up on the system. "Ah, here we go! She is in room 2 that way.", Larry said pointing to the left. "Thank you Larry!", Susie said as she made her way over. She walks in the room and finds her mother hooked to an EKG machine and an oxygen mask on.  She asks the EKG technician how the EKG is looking. "Her heart has normal rhythm. There is nothing to worry about from what I can see, but you'll have to talk to the cardiologist when he comes in.", the technician said. Susie looks at it herself and doesn't see anything wrong with the EKG, but she is still worried as to why her mother got sick suddenly.

A nurse comes in and Susie asks her what has been done so far. "She's had blood work and we are waiting for the results on that. I am about to take her for a MRI.", the nurse said. Susie goes out of the room and asks the officer what happened. The Officer explains that her mother was found passed out on the floor and they weren't sure if she had hit her head because she wasn't responding. Susie waits anxiously. Her mother is brought back into the room. She is awake. "Why am I here?", Belinda asked the nurse. "You passed out honey that's why you are here.", the nurse said. Belinda looks at her daughter. "Baby girl, you are here!", Belinda said with tears in her eyes. "Yes mom, I am here. Just close your eyes and relax. I am not leaving your side.", Susie said looking at her mother. Her mom closed her eyes. Susie sat there stroking her long hair.

Later on the doctor comes in. "Hi there, my name is Dr. Dean Miller.", the doctor introduced himself. "Hello Dr. Miller, my name is Susie. I am her daughter.", Susie said. "Nice to meet you Susie. I have seen you before. Do you work here?", the doctor said. "Yes I do. Could we please talk about my mother now?", Susie said. "Yes of course. Ah, your mother's MRI and EKG were ok. Her blood work showed that she is anemic and possibly diabetic. We'll have to treat her. We are gonna have to do a glucose test to be sure in a few days.", the doctor explained. Susie looked concerned. She knew if her mother went back to jail and had no treatment she could fall into a coma or die. "Thank you Dr. Miller.", Susie said as she shook his hand. The nurse comes in and tells Susie that her mother can leave as soon as the release papers are ready. She takes out the IV drip and EKG electrodes off and oxygen mask off.

Susie helps her mother up as the Officer comes in to take her back to jail. "Step away Ms. Curry.", the Officer said. "Excuse me? I am helping my mother here!", Susie said in anger. "I'm sorry but I can't let you do that.", he said. He takes Belinda away as Susie watches in tears. "Mom, I love you and I will see you in a few days.", Susie yelled. Susie went home. She checked her messages as she was changing into something more comfortable. It had been a long day. Susie had a lot on her mind. She wrote herself a note to remind herself of what she must do in the week ahead. Meanwhile she was still waiting to hear from Roger. The phone rings and she answers. It's Justin returning her call from earlier. "Hey, I saw I had a missed call from you. Why didn't you leave me a message?", Justin said. "Hi Justin, I am sorry about that. I just didn't know what to say.", Susie said.

"Would you mind if I stopped by?", he asked Susie. "Sure, come on over Justin!", she replied excited. They hang up and Susie goes to the mirror. She wants to make sure she doesn't look horrible. She had been crying all day and stressed. Justin arrives and she opens the door. Justin comes in and grabs her by the waist and kisses her. She can't resist him so she goes along with the kiss. Justin didn't waste any time. He took her to the bedroom without saying a word. Susie is so into him that she didn't care what he wanted. She gave into him and they had sex again. After it was over, Justin asked her how her day went. She went on to say that she had gone to the hospital twice for different reasons. She explained what happened and Justin held her in his arms. "I'm sorry you had a rough day.", he said to her.

Susie looks up at him with tears in her eyes. "I'm glad you are here. You help me forget my problems. Thanks for being here Justin.", she said. She kisses him and they get under the covers again. "Make love to me again Justin.", Susie requested. Justin gets on top caressing her body and tracing her curves. Susie is feeling stress free and just letting herself get wrapped up in the moment. Her hands move up and down his body while he guides himself inside her. Susie moans in pleasure. The phone rings and everything stopped for a moment. It was Roger calling. "Hey baby, sorry I missed you. You must be asleep. Anyway, just wanted to let you know I got here safely. I love you, miss you. Bye!", Roger left her a message. Susie felt guilty for not answering the call. She asked Justin to leave.

To be continued    

© 2009

You killed me
I killed you
Now we are even
Can't you see?
So I am leaving
Setting you free
You broke my heart
Left me to die
I took your dreams
You deserved that
Now all is gone
We have moved on
I have my regrets
And you have yours
I've got new feelings
They grow stronger everyday
I am not speaking of love
I am speaking of hate
I hate you so bad
I want you out of my life
I'm sick of your lies
The ones you tell me
The ones you hide
Do you think I'm stupid?
I'm on to you and your crap
Let me be, let me go
I want nothing with you
I am just fed up
I've had enough